You’re Not Lazy, You’re Overstimulated

June 2025

Ever open your laptop with the full intention to “get things done”… and then somehow find yourself 45 minutes deep in a YouTube video about how cereal is a government conspiracy?

Yeah. Same.

Here’s the thing—what if your inability to focus, finish tasks, or even start them… wasn’t laziness? What if it was a natural response to living in a world that refuses to shut up?

The Myth of “No Willpower”

We’re constantly told we need more discipline. More hustle. More 5 AM routines, gratitude journaling, productivity hacks, and “dopamine detoxes” (whatever that means).

But maybe the issue isn’t that you’re not trying hard enough.

Maybe you’re just drowning in input. Notifications, emails, group chats, self-improvement reels, childhood wounds reactivated by memes. It’s no wonder your brain feels like a browser with 74 tabs open and no idea where the music is coming from.

This isn’t a willpower issue. It’s a bandwidth issue.

Your Brain Wasn’t Built for This

The human mind is an incredible machine—but it’s still running on prehistoric software. It evolved to scan for danger, solve simple problems, and respond to a relatively quiet, rhythmic world.

Now? It’s stuck trying to filter 100,000 pieces of stimulation a day while pretending it’s totally fine.

It’s not fine. You’re not fine. And that’s… fine.

What we call “procrastination” is often just our nervous system saying, “Too much. I can’t.” But instead of listening, we shame ourselves. We open another tab. We scroll. We push. And when we finally crash, we call it “being lazy.”

Nah. That’s not laziness. That’s overload.

The Pause You Think You Don’t Deserve

Here’s the irony: the more overstimulated we get, the more we punish ourselves for needing rest.

You sit on the couch after a long day, phone in hand, TV on, mind buzzing—and the guilt creeps in. “I should be doing something. I’m wasting time.”

But doing nothing in a world addicted to everything is actually a radical act. Stillness is a skill now. And like any skill, it takes practice.

Because here’s the truth: rest isn’t what happens when you’re done. It’s what helps you begin.

The Funny Thing About Focus

You ever notice how we treat focus like a light switch? As if we can just flip it on with enough coffee, pressure, or motivational TikToks?

But focus doesn’t come from pushing harder. It comes from clearing space. That includes digital noise, emotional noise, and even the pressure to “always be improving.”

Sometimes, the most productive thing you can do is stare at a wall for 10 minutes and let your brain breathe.

(Not scroll. Not meditate like a monk. Just… wall. You’ll be shocked how good it feels.)

The Takeaway You Already Know, But Forget

You’re not broken. You’re just overstimulated.

And when you stop trying to shame your way into action, you make room for something else: clarity. You don’t need more apps or hacks or accountability partners. You need fewer inputs. You need silence, sleep, a damn break.

You need to stop blaming yourself for what your environment has done to your nervous system.

And then? When you’re ready—you begin again. Not with urgency, but with intention.

 

 

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